Feeling guilty about "doing nothing" this summer? Read this.


Hi Reader!

Your kids are happily building forts, reading books they actually chose, and playing outside until the streetlights come on.

And then it hits you - that voice: "Shouldn't they be doing schoolwork? Are we falling behind? What if they forget everything?"

Sound familiar?

Here's what I've discovered after years of both stressed summers and restful summers: the guilt we feel about taking a break isn't just unnecessary - it's actually working against our kids' best interests.

The truth? Your child's brain is working harder when they're "doing nothing" than when they're focused on a worksheet.

Neuroscience calls it the Default Mode Network - it's when your brain makes connections, consolidates memories, and has those "aha!" moments. You know, like when your best ideas come in the shower or while your kids are playing with LEGOs.

Instead of asking "What should we accomplish this summer?" try this question: "What does our family want to remember about this summer?"

Maybe it's exploring your community. Or trying every ice cream shop in town. (we did that one year!) Or finally having time for those elaborate art projects.

When kids help choose the direction, they're invested. When they're invested, everything flows easier.

Your permission slip: Let them play. Let them read for fun. Let them be bored and figure it out. That's not wasted time - that's exactly what their developing brains need.

Rest isn't the enemy of learning - it's learning's best friend.

Hit reply and tell me: What's one thing your family wants to remember about this summer?

Here's to thriving together!


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