What do you love the most?


Hi Reader!

I'm not sure if I ever told you this...

But I really love being part of an in-person fiction book club. I mean, I really love it.

There’s something about getting lost in a story throughout the month… and then sitting around a table with friends sharing dinner, laughter, and conversation that just fills me back up.

In fact, here’s a little peek from one of our nights.

Now, I know what you might be thinking…

“That sounds nice… but I don’t have time for that.”

And I get it. I’ve been there.

Especially in seasons of homeschooling high-needs kids, navigating learning challenges, and carrying the emotional weight of it all… burnout is real.

There were days I felt completely drained and like I had nothing left to give.

Which brings me to the point of this email.

You still need something that’s yours.

Something that gives you life.

You will never feel caught up. There will always be more to do than you have time for. That’s why it has to be intentional because the things that matter most rarely happen by accident.

If you wait until everything is done, you’ll keep pushing what fills you up to the bottom of the list.

And I’ve seen how powerful it is when moms choose to make that space anyway because it changes how they show up for their kids.

One friend spends time gardening. She recently filled her van with plants after a hard day.

Another friend laces up her rollerblades, goes for a 5-mile skate, then stops at her favorite coffee shop to enjoy a treat and read a few chapters of her book.

It’s not about having tons of time.

It’s about choosing something small that brings you joy.

I don’t know what that looks like for you.

But I do know this...

If you’re feeling burned out, it’s a sign you need to be refilled.

So this week, ask yourself:

What’s one small thing I can do just because I love it?

And then… go do it.

Warmly,

PS. If you already have something you love doing, hit reply and tell me. I’d genuinely love to hear. And if you’re not sure what that is yet, that’s okay too… sometimes we just need permission to start looking.

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